On Sex and Love, Child Attraction, and Contemporary Word Politics

Welcome to this, the first guest blog to be hosted by Heretic TOC. Others have been submitted and will appear in due course: many thanks to those who have taken the trouble to write. The standard has been excellent, giving me confidence that guest blogs will have a continuing role here as an occasional feature. This first blog is by Gil Hardwick. As a frequent contributor of comments on the regular blog, Gil needs little introduction, except to say that he is an anthropologist and writer whose work is better described on his website than I can manage. See also Sniffer Dog for “Hardwick and Trinder Investigations”.     
I decided for this guest blog to address recent hysteria over so-called ‘paedophilia’ rather from a broadly philological perspective than my customary ethnographic. No apologies for appearing pedantic, that’s entirely my purpose.First, we have the word sex. The word is from L. sexus, referring to the two parts of society, to the state of being male or female; etymologically related to section. Associating sex with genitalia and copulation did not arise until the late eighteenth century, and did not emerge into common use until D. H. Lawrence in 1929.
Next we have the contemporary suffix –philia, which in neither classical nor modern Greek refers to sex or sexual attraction but to special friendship; philology (as above), or love of learning, is a case in point. Eros for comparison refers to sexual and romantic love, and agape to detached, spiritual love. The closest I can find to classical philia in modern times is the Chinese guanxi, which in Pin-yin means special closeness allowing the parties to prevail upon one another for favours, no matter how asymmetrical the relationship may be.
Another ostensibly suggestive word that I like is catamite, a somewhat more joyfully sensual rendering of acolyte; a cup-bearer or attendant, here torch-bearer, corrupted and sexualised in modern times in order to purify liturgy and expunge suggestion of corruption in the Christian church. Until the mid-seventeenth century all such words merely pertained to serving boys in differentiated Pagan, Christian, Protestant, Nonconformist and Dissenting denominations.
Catamite itself is an early corruption of the classical Ganymede, torch-bearer of Zeus, which means joyful counsel, named after Medea the sorceress, wife of Jason, of Argonaut fame.
The second word love is not classical but Germanic via Old English lufu, where in Greek special love for a male child is rendered as agoriphilia. In modern German by contrast the word is knabenliebe. Knaben, in English knaves, were originally young male attendants. There is no equivalent word here for boy as a male child but as a slave, from L. boia, which is a leg iron or yoke. Traditional and early modern catamites were invariably lower class boys attending scholars and professors, as distinct from priests, and by doing so became well educated, and elevated in society.
Child is also Germanic via Old English cild, an infant, entirely unrelated to the idea of a boy; still present in certain North Country dialects, generally referring to those emergent from the womb with an implied, Christianised ‘innocence’ to them. It is only very recently, following the Victorian invention of the child, and especially since the 1990s and under feminist insistence, that boys are included legally among children, whereas girl is likewise traditionally part of a broad range of very old Germanic diminutives, meaning any young and immature animal as distinct from human children as such. Even today an immature, effeminate boy is called a girl, whereas a forthright and capable female child is rightly considered boyish, and as such called a tomboy.
Adoption of the enslaved L. boy for a male child and the merely diminutive OE. girl for a female, underpins pervasive gender asymmetries and distortions in the contemporary Anglophone West. Plainly boys generally have not for a very long time been uniformly considered children, but as often persons of quite distinct status. A child in the process of becoming an adult within the safe confines of the modern nuclear family is recognised and anticipated by adult society, but not those considered to be ‘at risk’; those deviant, dissociated, detached boys on the road to delinquency or elsewhere. I wrote an Honours thesis in Literature on this theme in 2010, specifically entitled Reimagining the Rascal.
The clear meaning emerging from all this still has nothing to do with perverts attracted to minors in order to exploit them sexually, but patterns of reciprocal personal relationships especially between boys and men, and the effects of absence or failure of such relationships. Ethnographically these can be in the form of catamite, or more commonly fosterage and adoption; with nationalised bureaucracy now superseded somewhat by the idea of the state ward. Apart from only a very few of the more notorious cases there is no material evidence of sexual activity among any of them (being nobody else’s business anyway) beyond that implied by images of mutual erotic fondling found occasionally on ancient Greek vases.
Once we release words from this bureaucratic late modern obsession with abusive sex and its deployment in discrediting those who sceptically review and critique public policy, and place them back into their autochthonous social and cultural context, we find such closely interrelated expressions as agoriphilia, love of male children; androphilia, love of men; aretephilia, love of excellence, of virtue, of being the best you can be; ephebophilia, love of youth; gymnophilia, love of nudity, nakedness; gynephilia, love of women; hebephilia, love of pubescents; kalophilia, love of beauty; koritsiphilia (or korephiliakore being the genitive form), love of girls; paedophilia, love of children; somaphilia, love of the body; taliphilia, love of marriageable girls; teleiophilia, love of adults. You can add into this mix kalos kagathos, beautiful and good; and sophos kagathos, wise and good.
What emerges here is not at all some depraved, orgiastic wad of sodomites but a civilisation paying high regard to beauty, scholarship and erudition, goodness and wisdom. By contrast, contemporary debate throughout the Anglophone common law countries is dominated by bastardised, hybrid neologisms like sociology, criminology, and worse sexology. These words have been cobbled indiscriminately together from Latin and Greek by academics seeking to compile whole new dictionaries of aberrant sex and sexuality in an effort to focus public policy not on beauty and wisdom, but on deviance and abnormality.
As the sci-fi writer James Nicoll wrote in 1990, however; the problem with defending the purity of the English language is that English is about as pure as a cribhouse whore. We don’t just borrow words; on occasion, English has pursued other languages down alleyways to beat them unconscious and rifle their pockets for new vocabulary.

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Please add to “Asians with huge Anglo-imperial past”, many Anglo ‘psycho-lonialised’ countries in the continent ‘Africa’,
Leaving only Latin America, south-of-U.S/Canada, and mainand Europe north of Mediterranean as the only land masses not Anglo-fascist ‘psycho-lonially’ aBused by history’s biggest bullshiters bar-none.

From age-12 formally, and often younger, mainland European kids learn 2nd and third languages always including English which they speak and write almost perfectly. If with slight American accents via Pop-culture and films. As do many Asians with huge Anglo-imperial past.
While, disgracefully, Anglophone kids (but for some elite and middle-class) can’t speak any other language, and many are not even literate in English !
What an ultimate irony, that the global common computer toungue is English, and that as knowledge grows between world peoples wising up to devious Anglo media-driven ‘psycho-lonialism’, the English language may prove to be the final downfall of phoney-Anglophonia and it’s all-bent mainstream media.
Then hundreds of millions of honest Anglos will have what they only ever reasonably expected from their old schooldays; Truthtful, Transparent, Just, Open, Liberal, Free (not Fascist) Anglo Democracies.
Power To The Peoples’ Web – Above Which No One Stands.

No problem with a common tongue evolving, as you say Michael, though better for whoever wants to use it to pick up a dictionary occasionally, and a good thesaurus so as not to overdo the alliteration, and avoid newspapers.
Better again to learn multiple tongues, as both continental Europe and the whole of Asia routinely speak 4-5 languages.
Taxpayers and dilettanti at large, do read Michael’s Masters thesis (English, UWA) on Shakespeare’s boys.

Well said, Gil Hardwick & Willistina556!
My anger at the wholesale hijacking of English is much more direct and far more basic. The pejoratives verbs: “attack”, “assault”, “molest” and the passive resultant noun, “victim”, are used in every addition to the eternal discourse of “child sexual abuse”. These extreme words are used regardless of whether, unforgiveable violence was present, or the acts were completely consensual.
Further, but still on the level of simple English: we don’t throw rocks at, or villify anglophiles or bibliophiles, so why do paedophiles get so much flak? The truth is the word “paedophile” has been puloined by people who simply do not understand what it means. Or worse still, by people who know perfectly well what it means, but who pragmatically use the word as an extreme pejorative.
English itself is constantly evolving, and rightly so, but I beg at least the partially educated, to try to use words that can be found in the Maquarrie, or the Oxford — or either addendae — in their correct senses. MT-W.

Gil, rightly pedantic on semantics, etymology, lexicography, definitions, distortions; and distortions of defintions, endlessly redefined.
Welcome to humanity-exploiting, psycho-lonial (‘we know best, think as we do’) fascist phoney-Anglophonia UK/US/CA/OZ/NZ/SA/IE. For profit not protection, creating and then exploiting dysfunction, ever to deliver confusion not consensus. Always more questions than answers.
While, our independant-adultophile long-held view is that (but for extremis, e.g. lil Moses drawn to fire), ‘aMused not aBused’ is far more subjective than can ever be objectively defined by arrogant psycho-lonial fascist, so called ‘adult’ phoney-Anglophonia.
Now being firmly told by today’s beyond control, young ‘Generation SeX’, de-facto guilt-free, all-sexting/camphone/DIY-CP, mocking crap so called ‘Sex Laws: ” My Mind, My Body, My Choice – Mind Yer Own ! ”
(P.S. Sometime in the not too distant future the phoney-Anglophone heirarchy and mainstream will again be apologising as they do now for past abuses against races and individuals. In future for the mental/emotional/physical tortures they committed on generations of today’s young people severely penalised for merely expressing their natural sensuality. Quote, Don McLean, ‘Vincent’, “they’re not listening still, perhaps they never will..”)

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