So-called abuse was ‘best thing ever’

The talk is all Brexit here in Britain, from breakfast to bedtime, and quite rightly so given its huge importance – that and the political shenanigans that have foisted a new prime minister on the country and threaten to shatter the main opposition party. But Heretic TOC is going to show Brexit the exit today as there has also been a lot of Kind news that should not pass unnoticed: not just the now horribly routine draconian sentences but a thoroughly mixed bag of significant stories, with glimmers here and there of resistance to the mainstream abuse narrative. Forgive me for trying to cram a pint into a half-pint pot, but it may be best this time if I pass fairly briskly from one item to another, giving lots of links to fuller accounts.
Let’s get the really nasty stuff out of the way first. Particularly shocking to me personally was a long sentence imposed on one of two guys who had been leading members of Paedophile Action for Liberation (PAL) back in the 1970s. They were Doug Slade, then serving as a petty officer with the Royal Navy, and Chris Skeaping, a racing driver. Slade was sentenced  earlier this month to 24 years for truly “historic” sex offences – over 50 years ago, in 1965 – after being extradited from the Philippines; Skeaping awaits sentence. Along with child welfare officer Ian Melville, they were blasted as “The vilest men in Britain” in the tabloid Sunday People’s exposé of PAL in 1975. PAL collapsed in disarray as an independent organisation soon after that and was eventually incorporated into the Paedophile Information Exchange (PIE), which I later chaired. None of the PAL leaders ever became active in the running of PIE and I do not remember any of them even becoming members, though they may have done.
I met Doug and Chris on a couple of occasions, though. While they were never as committed to the political side as some of us in PIE, they struck me as decent enough guys who would never have been coercive in their relationships with youngsters. The salient point about their case, I suggest, is that it would not have happened but for the Daily Mail, who say they “persuaded” one of Slade’s former young boyfriends in the UK to shop him to the police. Once that happened, it was possible for the authorities to get him back from the Philippines last year, where he had been living as a “wealthy businessman” by this time. In other words, the complaint was not spontaneous. Even an NSPCC spokesperson quoted in the Mail’s account implicitly concedes that Slade’s offences were with boys who could well have been willing at the time.
For sheer vindictiveness, though, it is hard to top the response of compo king solicitor Peter Garsden, who has insisted that Slade’s sentence was too light, based on the malignant dogma that “sexual abuse imposes a life sentence of suffering on any victim”.
Fortunately, the falsity of this overworked mantra was made apparent in other news this month, about the chair of the Scottish government’s inquiry into historical child abuse, Susan O’Brien QC. According to the Guardian, published correspondence revealed that at the end of one training session O’Brien referred to a survivor of child sex abuse who had described it as “the best thing that had ever happened” to them! For letting the cat slip out of the bag in this way, O’Brien was threatened by a government minister with the sack, even though her inquiry was supposed to be independent. Clearly she was not going to be able to do the job without government meddling so she resigned. Good for her! It was the second such resignation in double-quick time. Panel member Michael Lamb, a psychology professor at Cambridge University, quit a week before saying the inquiry had been “doomed” by government interference. Good for him! Not good, though, for the credibility of government inquiries in this field.
From the vindictive and the meddling to the downright inhumane. In breach, I would say, of the human right to a private and family life, jailed footballer Adam Johnson was banned from talking to his own daughter because he had broken a sex offender rule stating that he was not to contact children. Guards had overheard him on the phone to his 17-month-old baby daughter after the couple’s mother passed the phone to the child. But the only offence that had put him in prison was of consensual sex with a girl of 15. There was never any suggestion that his own baby was at risk, so enforcement of the rule was utterly unnecessary as well as destructive and cruel.
Inhumane in a different way was the prosecution of a man thought to be the oldest defendant in British legal history, who appeared in court last month at the age of 101 charged with historic sexual offences against three children. His trial has been scheduled for December. Even supposing he makes it that far, which must be in doubt, one has to wonder what purpose is served by hounding him towards his grave.
OK, that’s all the really bad news out of the way. So what chinks of light can we discern? Well, never mind mere chinks, how about this for a great big sunbeam: A judge has allowed a paedophile music teacher to continue working with children after hearing letters of support from 12 of his pupils’ parents. A Daily Mirror report said that Neil Deller, 42, was charged after child porn featuring images “of girls as young as three and bestiality” were found on his computer. But he continued to give private lessons following his arrest two years ago and the parents of many pupils wrote positive references about him. These were presented to Judge Christopher Ball QC who spared Deller jail and refused to ban him from teaching children aged under 18.
Well done Judge Ball! He clearly has balls, as he could easily have been spit-roasted in the media for such a bravely unfashionable decision – although he has just retired at the end of an often outspoken and controversial career and perhaps felt he had little to lose. Congratulations, too, to the independently-minded parents who gave the teacher their support and made the judge’s action possible.
Parents were backing a teacher in trouble on the other side of the Atlantic too. Alexandria Vera, a 24-year-old English teacher, found herself pregnant, apparently by a pupil who was 13 at the start of a sustained relationship. In unusually sympathetic and understanding newspaper coverage, a story in the Santa Monica Observer pointed out that all concerned – the teacher, the boy and his parents – were Hispanic and that “in traditional Mexican culture, teenagers are allowed to have sexual relationships, and couples where the woman is older than the man are commonplace and not denigrated”. The parents had known and approved of the relationship, letting the boy stay with Vera overnight.
Charged with “continuous sexual abuse of a child”, Vera was granted bail last month. Her trial is expected to start any day now. Unfortunately, if she is convicted of the felony charge in question, it looks as though the judge will not have any discretion to take Mexican culture into account. A harsh sentence will be mandatory.
On the celebrity front, things are looking up for veteran pop star Sir Cliff Richard following the high-profile police raid on his Berkshire home nearly two years ago, conducted as part of an investigation into an alleged historic sex offence against a boy in 1985 – though the police in this instance used the euphemism “non-recent”, as though embarrassed (as they should be) by their destruction of people’s lives decades after the event. Or in this case non-event, as it seems, because the CPS finally announced last month that there is “insufficient evidence” to support a prosecution. And just a couple of days ago Sir Cliff launched legal action against the BBC and police for turning his life upside down. The Daily Mail had earlier reported that was about to start a £1mn action for worldwide damage to his reputation after the beeb filmed the police raid on his home. Good luck to him!
Broadcaster, writer, politician and chef Sir Clement Freud, meanwhile, who was himself accorded national treasure status like Sir Cliff, avoided the latter’s problems by very sensibly dying in 2009 while the going was good. This was well ahead of the open season on celebs that began with the posthumous fall from grace of that other once-dazzling knight, Sir Jimmy Savile. So why is “Clay” Freud, as he was known to family and friends, better off dead? If an ITV documentary (which I have not seen) and a Daily Mail report are to be believed, it is because he had at least a couple of sexual dalliances with underage teen girls, one of whom claims he “brutally raped” her later on when she was 18. I’m not sure how seriously we can take the rape claim but the rest does seem highly credible, on the basis of reported admissions by the old boy’s widow: Lady Freud, accused of setting up a three-in-a-bed scenario with herself, a 14-year-old girl and her husband, doesn’t exactly seem to have worked hard at indignant denial. Instead, she meekly apologised for Clay’s feet of clay.
Now another bit of good news: well, good in a way. Stephen Rice, a producer with the Australian TV documentary strand 60 Minutes, has been sacked. I do not know Mr Rice and would not normally celebrate an individual’s career setback, but I must confess to a warm glow of schadenfreude over the reputational damage caused to 60 Minutes from the disastrous misadventure that got the producer and the show into deep trouble in the Middle East, when four crew members found themselves locked up in Beirut for two weeks by the Lebanese authorities, suspected of complicity with a child abduction. A tragically broken family is at the heart of the disaster and that is certainly no cause for joy. But good could come of it if 60 Minutes is made to behave more responsibly in future. It was this same low-grade, grossly sensationalist TV series, it may be remembered, who interviewed me when I was trying to defend my friend Charles Napier at the height of the Westminster so-called VIP paedophilia scandal. 60 Minutes was among those media outfits that chose to believe and play up the now discredited lies of several fantasist opportunists who had concocted bizarre, obviously suspect, and gravely defamatory yarns about VIPs, including Edward Heath, the late former prime minister whose main achievement was to take Britain into the European Economic Community, which later became the European Union, which the nation has just voted to leave…
And so, perhaps inevitably, back to Brexit. My final glimmer of light in this blog comes from the day of the referendum vote itself. That is when I heard on the radio about a new report by the Prison Reform Trust (PRT) drawing attention to the continued plight of prisoners who remain on indeterminate (IPP) sentences in the UK, despite what the PRT described as “near universal criticism of the sentence from judges, Parole Board members, HM Prisons Inspectorate, the Prison Governors’ Association, staff, prisoners and their families”. Steven Adrian Freeman, my successor as chair of PIE, has been languishing in prison on one of the sentences long after completing the 30-month “tariff” originally set by the court in his case.
Justice secretary Michael Gove said in a recent speech “there are a significant number of IPP prisoners who are still in jail after having served their full tariff who need to be given hope that they can contribute positively to society in the future.”
Without all the Brexit turmoil, Gove might well have decided it was time to scrap the IPP. But new prime minister Theresa May takes over today and Gove could be out of his job when she picks her new cabinet. Or he could be told to get on with it. May herself has already made some encouraging noises, hinting that she wants to be a reforming leader and sounding almost like former opposition leader Ed Miliband. Perhaps she will look favourably on prison reform. We can only hope that time will be found for legislation that includes the abolition of IPP. But many good ideas are bound to be crowded out, and the new government will inevitably find much of its time taken up by Brexit.

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people are found to tolerate enseignante-disciple sex more than enseignant-disciple one:

  • Andrea M. Pals, Jonathan M. Golding & Mary M. Levi (2022) “Perceptions of a Plea Agreement in Cases of Teacher and Adolescent Student Sexual Assault,” Journal of Child Sexual Abuse, DOI: 10.1080/10538712.2022.2119911

don’t know now to call a female teacher in English

hello, I have a question, look I was watching TV some time ago, and there was a movie called “An Education” and seems to me that this movie was a British-USA production, and was about the love story between a man aged 35 and a 16 yrs old girl, unfortunately I could not see the whole movie, but what little I saw in that movie did not say anything against that relationship, it seemed like any other movie, no accusation of abuse or anything, to my knowledge society hates all relations with minors under 18, and what I strange but being UK and USA film, which are the worst countries for a movie about it, someone know something more about this movie or if it is based on something ??
I would also like to know that as it is called to that attraction to girls in these older age like in the movie, is pedophilia also or what? is with all minors of all ages or just kids?
thanks 🙂

just come across this video, ‘Why child porn should be legal’…Very brave of him….Not sure I agree with him when it comes to ‘baby porn’ though, acknowledging in the past many mothers would masturbate their infants; But to film it, They should have, at least, The vocabulary to agree, Maybe others on here have a different view:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGAU1ap1scc

Indeed I just watched the Rubin Report, He has the same ideas as me regarding free speech, Even incitement! So I will do what I can to show my support.

I have a different view as porn of babies doesn’t actually cause physical harm, therefore, it should be legal, or at least, no stiff sentences attached. If it did cause physical harm then still its the act that should be criminal not the images!

Hi, Lensman! Those links you provided, and the quotes gleaned from them, provide an example of one of the most potent weapons used by the victimology crowd to keep dissenters and serious researchers silent: they will accuse anyone who questions the narrative, either specific instances of it or in a general sense, of being heartless, “soft” on sexual abuse, and deeply offensive & hurtful to emotionally injured people. Nobody wants to be subjected to that type of public criticism. Further, many have lost their jobs, found themselves uninvited from any important event they were about to attend, had any books they may have published boycotted (like Tom), pilloried by politicians (like Bruce Rind), exiled from academia (like Susan Clancy), and ultimately bullied into issuing a desperate mea culpa for making such unpopular statements about such an emotionally charged subject. Few individuals have the courage or strength of will to risk speaking out on this when the moral panic fueling these forms of victimology has such a degree of emotional power in society, with many influential and lucrative industries ready and willing to back it up.

On the down side, Johnson’s ban on talking to his baby daughter on the phone is simply astonishing. I can’t decide whether it’s more savagery or lunacy without knowing the minutae of the incident. Probably a mixture of the two in a way that only Britain in the 21st century seems capable. So too the 101yo man. Add this one to the list (old news but astounding in the unself-conscious savagery of the judging) :
‘Following his arrest (for possession and distribution of images), Stocks threw himself off the Cockpit multi-storey car park and fell 30ft on to the roof of the Eagle Centre Indoor Market.
He was left using a wheelchair as a result of the injuries he suffered.
On sentencing him, Judge John Burgess said being in a wheelchair would make the prison sentence much harder.
He said: “You are obviously deeply ashamed of what you have done. It is something that led you to try to commit suicide.
“It has left you in a wheelchair indefinitely. It will make your prison sentence much harder than it would be for an able-bodied person and I reflect that in the sentence.”
WTF? The judge acknowledges that remorse led the guy to attempting suicide, has he not been punished enough? Does not being so tormented that a guy cripples himself in a suicide bid count as ‘consequences’?

Since the guy who attempted suicide was only guilty of looking at and sharing pictures, I find myself wondering if it was truly remorse over this that made him take his life after that draconian sentence was handed down. I wonder if the motivation to attempt to take his own life was instead a combination of extreme shame and humiliation for it being publicly revealed that he resorted to an extremely unpopular means of satiating an extremely unpopular natural attraction base (the only ‘popular’ method of satiating it being a vow not to satiate it at all), along with having his life ruined by being thrown into prison for so long for that particular reason, where he was destined to actually be less popular than fellow inmates incarcerated for murder, armed robbery, arson, and all sorts of truly sociopathic behavior.

I think there was a case where a British man was living in America and got caught dealing coke, And when he got caught and imprisoned, There was a group that confronted him asking what crime he committed, Like you said, They were just looking for ‘paedos’… He complained and exposed the nasty goings on in that prison when he got out.

So far as Imprisonment for Public Protection is concerned, such are the hardships the average IPP prisoner currently faces. The following passage was written by a legal consultant.
“I have obtained a client’s permission to share some information relevant to his sentence in order to show how difficult it is for some prisoners, in this case an IPP, to progress through the rehabilitation programmes, even when they have made 100% effort to engage with the coursework and to prove their risk reduction.
Client X is eight years over his tariff and had struggled to complete the necessary offending behaviour work prior to his earliest possible date of release, but since then, he had gone on to complete everything on his sentence plan, that he was deemed suitable for prior to his hearing with the parole board scheduled for over a year ago.
Significantly, he had never had the benefit of a hearing in front of the parole board and has still not experienced that fully, as two hearings have been deferred due to problems with the evidence presented by the prison service and probation.
Prior to what was going to be his first parole hearing, his solicitors had provided an independent psychological report to challenge the findings of the prison psychologist.
I was acting as his representative at the hearing.
Unfortunately, although the independent psychological report was very positive, it had agreed with the findings of the prison psychologist, with regards to keeping him in prison and not allowing a move to open prison, which was not in his interests at this stage in his sentence.
His solicitors had made a decision to withdraw that evidence completely.
I was not aware of this until just before the hearing and differed in my opinion, as I felt, on the whole, the report was very useful and we might be able to argue for a reasonable outcome.
But another problem arose, when I examined the prison psychological report in depth and realised that it was missing vital information, particularly as Client X had been convicted of very serious sexual offences.
It is important that any psychological report, produced for somebody who has committed a sexual offence, must include evidence from what is referred to as the RSVP (Risk of Sexual Violence Protocol) which any parole board panel will need to see in order to accurately examine a prisoners current risk to the public.
The RSVP looks at 22 risk factors (over five different domains) and it considers the level of risk that was around at the time of the offence and how many of those risks are still present, or partially present, that will either need further treatment or simply monitoring and assessing in open prison or the community.
It is important to state that Client X had successfully completed all of the prison courses and was completing regular diaries (on a daily basis) which are called “Schema diaries” so that professional staff can monitor his work and make sure that he was fully understanding the coursework and to keep an ongoing check that he was not slipping into any further deviant sexual thoughts or interests through his sentence and even during his time in open prison, or on release into the community.
This is very important work, but it relies on the prisoner being entirely honest about his sexual thoughts fantasies and his daily interaction with females/children (if appropriate).
Client X had completed over 152 pages of diaries and despite repeated applications to the prison Psychology Department, nobody had reviewed his work. Although, a year ago a trainee psychologist had looked at them and said she would be able to review them regularly, but this never happened.
During his time in prison the psychologist had referred to the HSP (Healthy Sex Programme) but he had been deemed unsuitable on several occasions because he no longer had any deviant sexual fantasies or thoughts about rape and violence.
His outside probation officer had asked the prison if it is schema diaries would be sufficient to prove a risk reduction and she had also asked if he would be suitable for a move to one of the new PIPE units. None of these questions had been answered and sadly this parole hearing could not go ahead until there had been a further psychological assessment, so that more accurate evidence could be provided to the parole board.
It should also be noted that Client X had no meaningful contact with his outside probation officer for over 18 months and the probation service had not conducted a structured interview prior to completing their report to the parole board. The probation officer had referred to his current “risk needs” but could not specify what they were or how they could be addressed.
At this stage Client X could provide evidence that he was fully engaging with staff and other prisoners and happy to engage with any further ongoing risk reduction work or relapse prevention work. But this was not sufficient for the parole board at this stage.
Following the deferral of the first hearing, his solicitors waited for the updated assessment from the prison and then they could apply for an update to the independent report to provide better evidence at the next hearing.
A parole board hearing is a judicial review and directions were made to the prison that all reports, including the updated prison psychology report should be received well in advance of the hearing, to enable all witnesses to read them and for his solicitors to arrange for an independent report, to challenge any negative evidence provided.
In this man’s case the prison did not complete their report in time and it was only available 11 days before the date of his next hearing. He had waited five months for this hearing.
The independent psychologist was on holiday and did not return until the week before the hearing, but she made his case a priority, visited him within 24-hours and produced the updated report less than 24 hours later, which was an excellent piece of work.
His solicitors submitted the work to the parole board as soon as they could, but it was on the morning of the day before the proposed hearing, and was not received by the parole panel until the evening before.
Client X and I examined both reports and decided that the evidence required was now covered and hopefully this hearing could go ahead and he would be successful in moving to an open prison.
Client X stated that he had now been seen by the prison psychologist and she had advised him on how to complete the diaries properly. He had actually completed a further 33 pages, within two days.
Bearing in mind that he had been asking for help with his diaries for over 18 months and up until now had been completing them wrongly, it was important that this latest written work was made available to the parole board and other witnesses, as they were not supporting his move to an open prison based on the fact that they believed he needed to do further risk reduction work.
His diaries clearly show that this is not the case and he is safe to be managed in open prison, if not release!
I reviewed the content of these diaries, which now showed a very clear understanding of his schemas, triggers to offending and a very healthy thought process.
A problem occurred at the next hearing, because it became clear that both the late submission of the independent psychological report and his production of his updated diaries meant that further time was needed for everybody to consider this extra evidence and sadly this meant that his parole hearing had to be deferred for a second time, for this to take place.
It is impossible for the parole board to prioritise anybody’s case or to accurately predict when the next hearing might be, but we could be facing a further 4 to 6 months before it goes back to the parole board.
Client X is understandably disappointed, but the important point about all of this is to make sure that the evidence being presented to the parole board is as thorough as possible. It is the legal adviser’s responsibility to make sure that nothing is missed out and that the hearing is not rushed forward, for the convenience of either the panel or other professionals taking part.
We don’t know what the outcome will be at his next hearing but he is happy that the board will be fully considering his case and no important evidence will be missed.
I always struggle with this kind of case, because it means a prisoner will spend further time in a prison that offers nothing more for him to do. But, he has placed faith in my advice and it was a shared decision, which makes life a little easier.
My continued disappointment is that some prison and probation professionals could also see what the problem was long before now and have done nothing to help him. The constant change of prison offender supervisor’s as not helped the situation and many are simply not trained to spot the problem.
The government have decided to concentrate on prison education as a means to providing better rehabilitation, when it is clearer than the nose on my face, which is considerably large one, that there are massive holes in our rehabilitation process that continue to increase the risk to the public on the one hand and on the other hand, preventing prisoners who are rehabilitated from being released in a timely manner and thereby freeing up valuable prison places.”

‘unless the deliberate intention is to slowly drive those caught up in the machinery to the depths of despair.’ I think it is, actually. It must be. I don’t why. 🙁
I’m facing charges for indecent images myself, low numbers and possession only, but nevertheless have been banned from unsupervised contact with my 2 sons (8 and 10) for the 6 months since my arrest, confession and bail. Never committed a contact offence, never had any indecent image regarding them or any other child known to me, and all the images were girls, and the investigation must know this by now. No doubt I face a monumental mind-fuck in the coming weeks too when they finally charge me, not to mention being destroyed by the courts and local press, when all I want to do is be sorry for the offence and rebuild my family life. My solicitor is talking about an independent psychological evaluation (at a cost of about £2,000, on legal aid thankfully). Utterly unnecessary. I am NO risk to anyone, not even in terms of internet offences anymore, yet… proving it to the satisfaction of the powers that be… wish me luck in ever being allowed to be a normal loving father again, and wish my confused and severely disabled son luck in getting me back as his carer.

Am taking some heart from the Deller case. Having read that in 2 different tabloids, it truly is an amazing case. I too teach music and am getting at least one excellent reference from a family of 6 girls who I taught (and the Dad’s a doctor no less), plus perhaps 2 other references also from families with girls. A reference also from a school teacher friend.
I expect some bastard to challenge the Deller ruling mind you, some small mind with nothing better to do than spread paranoia and hostility.

I too offer my condolences for this situation, Phil. Regardless of the remorse you feel about it, you were just looking at pictures, and now you’re deemed a “danger to children” for it, and forcibly kept away from your own kids despite never having a contact offense. Please hang in there and know that we’re here for you, and we do understand how difficult it can be to have an attraction base that you’re expected not to even look at pictures you didn’t personally take or have anything to do with taking as a form of sexual release.

Phil, why do you feel remorse if you did nothing wrong?

Mike, why do you continue to post here if your input is limited to snide asides?

They are not only asides as you call them. Some of the links Tom provided to an earlier query were interesting – Peter who lived on a canal boat and his experiences. If all you want are yes people then how do you cope in the real world?

“If all you want are yes people then how do you cope in the real world?”
Many of us minor-attracted individuals do not cope at all well in the real world in fact, surrounded as we are by ‘no’ people who do their damndest to make our very existence a living hell. To have laws that make it a crime to look at images such as those enjoyed by Phil, images termed ‘indecent’ by the very same law-makers who neither pursue the crime of conducting genital mutilation on newly-born infants nor prosecute individuals that distribute and enjoy images depicting extreme violence, clearly demonstrates that discrimination of our very particular sexual minority group is condoned and promoted at every level of Anglophile society. One needs only to glance at the equivalence of first degree murder and possession of child pornography sentencing in the US to realise the depth of the holocaust to which we are being subjected. Every one of ‘us’, to a varying degree, is a victim of this discrimination, a situation that forces us to coalesce to seek out some form of solace.
So, if I have gauged the sense of your latest perfunctory comment correctly, more yes people in the real world would help ‘us’ cope tremendously.

Actually, Phil, an indipendent psychological evaluation may not be unnecessary at all. If provided by the right expert it may actually be evidence of what you are trying to prove, i.e. that you are no risk to anyone.
I have the contact details of an excellent psychologists who specialises in sex offences. Should you be willing to give it a try, just let Tom know, and l will provide his name and contact details. You could google his name and check his references yourself.

That’s in England? And they actually use the word “deviant”.
ALL PSYCHOLOGISTS are the ENEMY! Their SICKENING pseudoscience ( read: couldn’t handle a proper language or the MATH STATS but wanted to feel important ) is the stuff of the very Devil!
How they make me sick!
One day we can only hope they will be punished.

Talking of “follow-up”; I would be intrigued to discover how Mr Deller is coping. Many would speculate that he continues to teach music to children, undeterred by his “brush with the law”.
There appears to be no comments associated with the Daily Mirror article (or it might be to do with the cheap tablet I use) but I can imagine what they would have said, in the most part, if available.
However, sensing from the story that he felt some degree of being ashamed of his behaviour, I can envisage it possible that Mr Deller would wish to voluntarily avoid teaching children in future, and I just wonder how actively those parents who wrote letters of support to the judge, would encourage him to continue to teach their children, that being the case.
I also wonder what life might be like for Mr Johnson after his release in 3? years.
I am hopeful that there are enough people, even those in the media (ever the eternal optimist), who consider his sentence was unduly harsh, his crime slight (in comparison to most reported sexual offences) and his circumstances and history newsworthy enough, that he might be allowed to give his take on what has befallen him. It doesn’t really make-up for the bureaucracy that is so intransigent it is willing to destroy families and interpret all displays of genuine love and affection as grubby and sordid, but I sincerely hope there will be an alternative narrative available for him when he’s released.

It’s possible that O’Brien was using the ‘survivor’s’ statement to support some anti-adult/child-intimacy position, using it as an example of maybe Stockholm syndrome.
Apparently, nobody has told these antis that the Stockholm syndrome can only exist as long as a person is entirely under the yoke of another person to such an extent that the former can only overcome his stress and fear by deceiving himself into sympathizing with the aggressor. When the aggressor has been neutralized and the person is not in danger anymore, a Stockholm syndrome cannot arise by definition. So these antis shoud perhaps be concerned about their own cognitive distortions instead?!

Thanks for that Tom!
There are several things I want to comment on but will restrict myself to venting my spluttering indignation and incredulity at the Susan O’Brien story for the time being.
As you say, O’Brien’s resignation was forced on her not because she (O’Brien) voiced the opinion that child sex abuse was “the best thing that had ever happened” to the ‘survivor’ in question, but because the ‘survivor’ said it: O’Brien was merely reporting the survivor’s words or sentiments!
It’s possible that O’Brien was using the ‘survivor’s’ statement to support some anti-adult/child-intimacy position, using it as an example of maybe Stockholm syndrome. Or maybe she has a little more insight into such issues than is considered acceptable by Scottish Government who commissioned this inquiry.
But whatever position O’Brien takes towards the ‘survivor’s’ understanding of his/her experience – this story makes clear that the idea of ‘listening to the children’ or ‘listening to the survivors of CSA’ only operates when those children, those ‘survivors’, are conforming to the Child Abuse narrative demanded by the authorities and the public. As soon as anyone so much as hints that they enjoyed the intimacy or that it did them no harm then those voices which the CSA industry is so keen to have heard are silenced with indecent haste.
In my opinion, this totalitarianism is a sign of weakness.
When powers are draconian, not brooking the slightest whiff of dissent, it’s because they sense that there is a dam-full of penned-in truth, contrary facts and experiences just bursting to force its way through if the slightest crack, the slightest deviation off script, is allowed. I’m not exactly claiming that there are millions of people out there who think and feel as does this ‘survivor’ – though there may be, or course, many of them too scared, too confused, too stigmatised to speak out.
There are probably many people who have forced themselves through a painful labyrinth of recontextualisation and learnt victimhood in order to conform to the dominant narrative, who may experience liberation at being allowed to think ‘I enjoyed it – maybe it did me good’ – if a critical number of voices were to be heard expressing this opinion then – who knows? – the dominant narrative – shaky and based on dishonest thinking and unsupported by research as it is – would soon crumble like a breached dam.
Is anyone aware of any follow-up of this story? Has anyone (other than you, Tom) picked up on the sheer perversity and dishonesty of what has happened?
The BBC web site is ‘on message’ with:
“22 February 2016 – Susan O’Brien QC makes comments
During a training session attended by 10 inquiry team members, she appeared to make light of the abuse suffered by an individual at a boarding school.”
(http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-36713198)
From Herald Scotland (http://www.heraldscotland.com/news/14597234.Susan_O_Brien_QC_resigns_as_chairwoman_of_child_abuse_inquiry/🙂
“Mr Swinney added that her comments were viewed to be ‘offensive’ to victims and unacceptable.”
Presumably O’Brien’s comments were not ‘offensive’ and ‘unacceptable’ to the ‘survivor’ she was quoting.

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